Blawg of Attorney Christine M Bechtold

Divorce is not easy on anyone, especially children. Every divorcing family is different, but here are a few general tips to deal with the stress of divorcing from your child’s parent: Take the high road and stop fighting. The sooner you can stop fighting with your child’s parent the sooner you can focus on your child. Fighting in front of your child is not good for anyone. Encourage your children to visit their parent, their grandparents, and their extended family. Just because you may not want to be around your child’s parent anymore does not mean your children don’t need them in their life. Remember to keep your child’s best interest in mind. Never disparage a parent or other adult in front of the children . Adult conflicts are for adults only. Do not use your child as messenger. If you have communication for the other parent communicate with them directly. Do keep things as consistent as possible. Keeping your child’s schedule and daily routines in place will help them with

“A well regulated Militia, being necessary to the security of a free State, the right of the people to keep and bear Arms, shall not be infringed."   U.S. Const. amend. II . This Second Amendment of the U.S. Constitution is generally referred to simply as the “right to bear arms.” The United States Supreme Court recently addressed the Second Amendment and found that, “The Second Amendment protects an individual right to possess a firearm unconnected with service in a militia, and to use that arm for traditionally lawful purposes, such as self-defense within the home.”  District of Columbia v. Heller, 554 U.S. 570 (2008) .  Our Second Amendment right is regulated by each specific state. Georgia’s specific law is the "Georgia Firearms and Weapons Act." O.C.G.A. § 16-11-120 . In Georgia, the Judge of the Probate Court in your county has the authority to issue a valid firearms permit to qualified applicants. This firearm permit “shall authorize that person to carry any

Parents often ask if they have to pay child support, and the simple answer is yes. Georgia, like all states, believes that child support is a parental obligation based on public policy. Child support belongs to the child not to the parents; therefore parents cannot negotiate away that obligation. Child support is paid by the non-custodial parent to the custodial parent “or other person to whom the custody of the child or children is awarded .” O.C.G.A. § 19-6-17 . The amount of child support starts with the Georgia Child Support Commission .  This organization has “ the purpose of studying and collecting information and data relating to awards of child support and to create and revise the child support obligation table.” Georgia Courts . The Georgia Child Support Commission publishes child support calculators to determine a presumptive child support amount. Georgia Child Support Commission Calculators . This presumptive amount can be deviated upon judicial approval.   It is importa