Sharing custody of your
child with your ex is challenging, holidays can make that challenge even more
difficult. Here are some tricks to have a happy co-parenting Halloween:
1. Confirm your visitation schedule as soon as possible. Even if you think you know the visitation plan for Halloween, it is always a good idea to confirm at least one week in advance.
2. If you have a Parenting Plan through the Court, follow that schedule, however, you can adjust Halloween visitation if both parties agree.
3. Halloween falls on a Sunday this year, which can impact regular visitation schedules. Confirm visitation drop-off and pick-up times to ensure both parties have a chance to enjoy the holiday with your child.
4. Think outside the box. There will be Halloween activities around town all weekend. Be open to visitation on days other than just October 31st. For example, on Saturday, October 30, 2021 “Trick or Treat on Main Street in Loganville will take place this year from 4-6 p.m. on Main Street in downtown Loganville.” https://news.monroelocal.org/24th-annual-trick-or-treat-on-main-street-in-loganville-scheduled-for-oct-30-2021/.
5. Consider a different exchange time or location. If your child is interested in participating in a trunk or treat with your ex or if they want to go door-to-door with their friends in another neighborhood, try to be flexible.
6. Get it in writing. Once you have an agreement, be sure to confirm that schedule in writing, this can be done via email or text with both parties.
7. Make a new Halloween tradition. Halloween is not just trick or treating, there are lots of fall activities and events to enjoy around the holiday. Find something new to make Halloween fun for you and your family.
8. Communicate. Discuss visitation details with your ex in advance so your child can have an enjoyable Halloween.
9. Remember your child is watching your interactions with your ex. Be a good example for your child and try to avoid conflict.
Although it may be frightening to work with your ex, the trick of communicating prior to Halloween weekend will help ensure that everyone has a happy co-parenting Halloween.